-“Doctor…I finally acted on my dear old fantasy…I slept with two men.”

Claudia X. is an attractive middle-aged divorced mother of two teenagers that has a stellar career as a lawyer for a financial company. She has been dating another lawyer for a while and she finally mustered the inner strength to pop the question to him: “Hey, how about if we invite your buddy Ted for a threesome? Do you mind, dear?”

Even though the concept of group sex, either hetero or homosexual, has been present in manly minds and conversations for centuries, it has only recently emerged in women’s intimate territories, usually with a man’s guiding hand.The couple’s erotic fantasies may now include a third player: male, female or transgender.

The heterosexual fantasy of one man and two women still gets priority attention but increasingly women are asking for a quid pro quo to their fixed partners. If she wants to invite another man to bed, she has to overcome her partner’s reticence to watch “his” woman with another man and his homosexual fears.

Walther Ghedin, psychiatrist and specialist in sexology, says “the woman that dares to try erotic games with two or more men likes her sex intense and varied. No conventional poses. No romantic wording. Far from a ‘passive’ role, she asks, does and acts. Her behavior fulfills her fantasies. And more.”

The woman that dares with multiple partners, male and/or female, is careful. She does not want to worry about an unwanted pregnancy or contagion. She takes the necessary precautions and usually avoids the company of strangers. The lesbian sexuality includes the use of hands, oral sex and bodily contact.

Long, long time ago (before I became a monk of Medicine) I was surprised to learn that one of my loving tryst’s husband already knew about our affair.

-“Really?” I said disingenuously.” Isn’t he –er—jealous or something?”

-“No way…In fact he asked me if he could join us in our next date—”

I was dumbfounded, at a loss for words. I skedaddled, never to see her again.

What do you want me to say? Women are more daring than one can possibly imagine…

What do you think? Please tell us.

Don’t leave me alone.

5 thoughts on “Le ménage à trois

  1. Un artículo por demás interesante y elaborado con una perspectiva por demás interesante. La fantasía es uno de los platos más apetecibles en una relación, sea cual sea el género de los participantes y cuando esa fantasía se hace realidad los vínculos – si son maduros – creo que crecen y mejoran aunque siempre se corren riesgos; pero ¿qué es la vida sin riesgos? Como se expone en el comentario anterior el goce debe ser mutuo, placentero y abierto para todas las partes. Los tabúes dejarlos en el placard.

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    1. Querido Carlitos: buenas tardes y gracias por tu comentario tan “progre.” Te confieso que estoy un poco azorado ya que nunca pense que aquel muchacho de la calle Ejido pueda evolucionar tanto. Si es un tema a tratar peto no se si es para “intentar.” De todas maneras como decis vos todas esas pruebas deben resloverse con el respeto mutuo en la pareja. Gracias por leer nuestros blogs y segui comentandolos. Un avrazo!

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  2. querido Mario, muy interesante tu artículo. Las fantasías de inclusión de un tercero en la cama son muy frecuentes; a veces se dicen y otras quedan en la imaginación. Llevarlas adelante, es decir concretarlas, requiere de acuerdo y de argumentos que sostengan esta aventura. Decir sí a esta variante sexual es para un placer mutuo y no para complacer al otro. Ambos deben disfrutar y obtener beneficios de esta práctica, fundamentalmente estimular la erótica vincular.

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    1. Querido Walter: buenos dias y muchas gracias por tu comentario. Tocas un punto fundamental cuando decis que es para placer mutuo y no para complacer al otro. Si bien es algo todavia un poco aventurero para las personas maduras, es una opcion cada vez mas discutida por la gente joven. Por favor segui leyendo y comentando nuestro blog. Un abrazo.

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